3 a.m. is the hour when my mind seems to engage in its most profound reflections for this blog. Last night was no exception. At 3 a.m., I found myself awake, compelled to compose a “2024 year in review blog.” However, by 4 a.m., I struggled to identify ten positive aspects worthy of mention. By 5 a.m., I resolved to present an unvarnished account of the year—addressing the harsh realities, the disappointments, the sorrow, and ultimately the moments of hope and joy that emerged.
Ugly 2024
It would take me hours to describe all the harsh and unkind actions I’ve faced and seen this past year. I received contemptuous messages on social media about my views on social and political issues. Some dear friends were threatened for their opinions and choices in life. And sadly there were people who I thought were friends from college or high school who stopped connecting with me when I shared my views about the 2024 elections. I tried to learn and listen to others’ beliefs during the campaign, and even if I disagreed, I aimed to show respect and decorum. I only wish others would do the same.
Disappointing 2024
My disappointment about mankind was at an all-time high this past year. The cruelty that people inflicted on their fellow humans was incomprehensible. I am disappointed that after centuries of living on this planet – we have not established a way to exist in harmony versus adversity.
And as always – children pay the highest price for the actions of adults.
Grieving 2024
I have spent part of 2024 grieving for people I lost from college, high school, and our community, including friends and admired colleagues. One of the hardest losses was our beloved dog, Bayla. While some may not consider a pet worthy of deep grief, it still hurts. We miss her every day.
Hopeful 2024
By mid-November, I saw a chance to improve my 2024 experience, choosing to shift my focus from negativity to helping others, which led me to contact my friend Linda McCallum, or “MAMA LINDA.”
Linda and I met through BCBC, a now-closed group for women. She inspires me by playing Mrs. Claus every Christmas to bring joy to preschoolers in Los Angeles. Our BCBC group used to support her by donating gifts and money. This year, since BCBC is no longer active, I asked my friends and hubby to help. Together, we brought holiday cheer to 50 children and their hardworking teachers. With the help of friends, we wrapped games and books. We also filled stockings with candy, small toys, stickers, and even “treasure boxes”.
Grateful 2024
I am ending the year grateful. I have an abundance of gratitude for my family (including the newest members who joined us this year), our good health, and the strong bonds that unite us. I cherish our ability to travel, exploring new places and creating memories that will last a lifetime. My employment at a job I really do like allows me to grow and develop professionally, which I greatly appreciate. Additionally, the laughter and fun times I have had with good friends fill my life with joy and happiness. These moments, filled with shared stories and adventures, remind me of the importance of connection and support in our lives. As the year comes to a close, I find myself reflecting on all these wonderful moments, feeling overwhelmingly thankful for the incredible people and experiences that surround me.
Happy 2024
It is New Year’s Eve, and I am excited to embrace the year’s end with joy and a hopeful spirit!
I wish all of you the best of health, happiness, and most of all peace.
~Louise
Happy New Year, my friend.